Thank You Laura for your advice.

I am not comfortable with me and my abilities
that when I satisfy him, I feel that I am not
doing a good job. He leaves me no reason to think
that I am either.

You know how we make sounds and movements to
indicate what they are doing is WOW? Well, why
do they not do these things for us? I have to tell
you the big thing that I have and that creates a
problem in the bedroom is the fact that I cannot get
his past out of my head. He used to date an adult
video actress and well while he lived a fantasy life
for a while he had her and every other woman she
came in contact with.

Well, I can't seem to get the things that he
has done out of my head and that makes me feel
intimidated, that I'm not as good as her.

I must thank you for taking the time to help me and
my relationship problem.

A



OK, First things first.

Who is he with NOW?

YOU.

Who is he NOT with?

Her and her friends.

so... You're thinking about her, why?

Look, I get it. Porn Star = jealous girl.

But there's a REASON that he's not with her
anymore.

It didn't work. She's not his girl. You are.
But you'll be out the door too if you can't let
it go.

Not to hit you over the head with it, but
you really should get my ebook, because I
cover the ghosts of lovers' past and regaining
your confidence.

Do yourself a favor and check it out:

Bliss in the Bedroom (ebook)

But also, put yourself in his shoes.
Yeah, he probably had some rockin' sex.
But don't you think your boyfriend battled
his own jealous and insecurity demons?

How much would it suck to know your girlfriend
was going to work and screwing other guys?

And he probably wondered if they were better
than he was. I'm sure that relationship
"looked" like a great fantasy from you stand,
but to me it sounds like a nightmare.

I'm sure too that all that random sex lacked
the intimacy that the two of you are
accumulating over time.

So just because you're having some raunchy sex
with a million people doesn't mean that it is
where you really want to be.

I know my boyfriend has had some
incredible women in his past, and any time
I felt like being a little jealous, I thank
them privately for teaching him what he
knows and helping him get ready for me.

He chose you and you chose him. And the best
thing you can do for yourself is start
to communicate more with him.

If he's just lying there like a load
while you're going down on him, make sure
you're keeping eye contact with him the whole
time. Stop occasionally, and in your most
seductive voice, ask him, "Do you like that,
baby? Does that feel good?"

Force him to engage.

And don't feel bad. Some guys just are quiet.
As are some women. In fact, a LOT of people are.

Who knows, he might have gotten sick of
hearing porn noises and got quiet!

And if you're not sure about your techniques,
then check out my blow job section in my
ebook for some sure fire ways to makes sure
he's digging it!