Lora Somoza graduated from UCLA in 1994 with a Bachelor Degree in English Literature and Creative Writing. After spending seven years working in the film industry and script development, she turned her talents towards freelance journalism, writing article for various magazines. She became the head writer of two online magazines, writing humorous advice for women worldwide, focusing mostly on dating, love and relationships. Lora spent the next couple of years immersing herself in all that she could find that would create an explosively exciting sex life. She interviewed hundreds of women, experts in the field and read every book on the subject she could get her hands on. The result is her book, Bliss in the Bedroom: A Real Woman's Guide to Better Sex. Ms. Somoza writes an online sex advice column that goes out bi-weekly to over 25,000 loyal readers in the U.S., UK and Australia with circulation growing everyday. She resides in Los Angeles and writes on the topics of love and sex for racy.com. http://racy.com/sexpert.php There are many reasons to be glad that we've been born in the age that we are. Indoor plumbing, iPod's, Chinese take-out, Tivo, cell phones, online shopping, and free delivery to name a few. All wonderful conveniences of the modern world that our sisters of past generations had no access to. But what could really rock your boat and leave you wondering how you ever lived without it, you may not have even tried! Admit it. You've heard of it. And you've THOUGHT about it. You may have even caught yourself looking at one, only to run off, red- faced. But, it's time to face your fears and take the plunge. It's time to buy a SEX TOY. http://racy.com/sexpert_why_buy_sextoys.php http://racy.com/sexpert_why_buy_sextoys.php contact@racy.com (Lora at Racy) Sex and Love Advice OK, Have I got an EXCELLENT new tip that you simply must try. I just barely came up for air to tell you about it. (That and the fact that all my pink parts are so swollen from some serious lovin'... I simply had to take a breather, hee hee hee.) My man recently told me that one of his secret fantasy crushes is on hot librarians. Well, who am I to withhold from the poor guy? http://racy.com/sexpert_role_play.php http://racy.com/sexpert_role_play.php contact@racy.com (Lora at Racy) Sex and Love Advice So this goes out to all those football widows out there. Because if you're on of those chickies who looooooooooooooves football and paints her face the colors of her man's team, well then, La Di Friggin Da to you. I bet you have a flat head and turn into a pizza at midnight too. But for the rest of us, who may have little or let's be honest, NO interest in the game, Sunday can be the biggest bore, or a total disconnect with that creature we call a boyfriend / husband / Mr. Right Now... http://racy.com/sexpert_how_to_turn_the_superbowl_into_super_sex.php http://racy.com/sexpert_how_to_turn_the_superbowl_into_super_sex.php contact@racy.com (Lora at Racy) Sex and Love Advice So I asked him, what happened? Oh, you know, he says, they drifted apart, wanted different things, they had become more friends than lovers, blah, blah, blah. Uh, really? So now my ears have perked up because I KNOW sex has something to do with it. When I ask him about the sex (Hey, I'm nosey, but I'm doing it for YOU, so shut up and listen...) And he finally, after a couple of beers, confesses that while he'll miss her, he won't miss their sex life. HOLY CRAP! http://racy.com/sexpert_7_deadly_oral_sex_sins.php http://racy.com/sexpert_7_deadly_oral_sex_sins.php contact@racy.com (Lora at Racy) Sex and Love Advice One friend's baby is coming up on her first birthday while another is starting her first company. Another friend is getting ready to take a vacation while another was proud that she had lost 8 pounds. How did you lose it, I asked? She blushed and said, honestly, she and her hubby and bought some new toys and they were having more sex. More Kinky sex, and it was putting her in such a god mood, that she started hitting the gym again. Who knew, huh? http://racy.com/sexpert_how_naughty_can_be_oh_so_nice.php http://racy.com/sexpert_how_naughty_can_be_oh_so_nice.php contact@racy.com (Lora at Racy) Sex and Love Advice Hi, Hoping you can help. I have a great relationship except in the bedroom. Well, he is great but I suck. I am great at everything except on top. I can't seem to get a rhythm and he just ends up pushing me over and jumping on top of me and finishing. I need help and am not sure what to do or who to ask but I know one thing is for certain is that if I don't improve, there goes our sex life and then well I don't see what else matters with a male at our age. I know he loves me and our two kids, I am 21 and he is 22. I want to make him happy the way he does for me. PLEASE HELP ME. Thank you kindly, S. http://racy.com/sexpert_girl_problems_on_top.php http://racy.com/sexpert_girl_problems_on_top.php contact@racy.com (Lora at Racy) Sex and Love Advice Dear Laura: My Name is T.J. and I need some real advice. I've been with boyfriend for 2 years and I stopped getting wet. Now he's been real supportive and it's meant trying new things and objects. (Safely) Now I have come off the injection to see if that was the cause, and it has made it a lot better but after a while I go dry again. I Love my man and want things to change. Can you help? Thanks. http://racy.com/sexpert_hot_but_not_wet.php http://racy.com/sexpert_hot_but_not_wet.php contact@racy.com (Lora at Racy) Sex and Love Advice Thank You Laura for your advice. I am not comfortable with me and my abilities that when I satisfy him, I feel that I am not doing a good job. He leaves me no reason to think that I am either. You know how we make sounds and movements to indicate what they are doing is WOW? Well, why do they not do these things for us? I have to tell you the big thing that I have and that creates a problem in the bedroom is the fact that I cannot get his past out of my head. He used to date an adult video actress and well while he lived a fantasy life for a while he had her and every other woman she came in contact with. Well, I can't seem to get the things that he has done out of my head and that makes me feel intimidated, that I'm not as good as her. I must thank you for taking the time to help me and my relationship problem. A http://racy.com/sexpert_haunted_by_the_past.php http://racy.com/sexpert_haunted_by_the_past.php contact@racy.com (Lora at Racy) Sex and Love Advice Hey, Can you please give me some tips on how to talk dirty? Thanks. I swear - This is one of the easiest things for me. I had a beau 3000 miles away for a year... So needless to say, in between trips back and forth, we had a LOT of sex, on the phone. So, I learned to love the power of my voice, and his. He told me once that some of the best sex he's ever had was on the phone with me. You gotta love that. So, what do you do? http://racy.com/sexpert_tips_on_talking_dirty.php http://racy.com/sexpert_tips_on_talking_dirty.php contact@racy.com (Lora at Racy) Sex and Love Advice