This thing was entirely not what I expected when I bought it. Sure it was late when the lady and I were surfing through racy.com, and I really didn't want anything in my rear, so I picked a couple thing sthat would be good for me. It vibrated quite a bit and was stimulating. I think adding vibrating toys seems to help out a woman a lot more since thye need the extra stimulation whereas a man pretty much guarantees a good outcome. It was durable and we used it on two different occassions. We washed it afterwards with dial anti-bacterial soup and it was very clean. It still has battery power. Perhaps my woman can put down the lelo and use this sometime again.